I’m not one to be slow in pulling my paddle out of its proverbial holster - at least where frequency is concerned. SugarAnne is prone (pun intended) to be paddled just about every 2 ½ days or so. My “quick draw”, fast paddle, however, has slipped into an uncharacteristic no draw, “paddle fast”. I mean, where I used to be quick to reach for my paddle, I’ve noticed that in the past week, I haven’t reached for my paddle at all. A bunch of circumstances have probably contributed to this paddle fast – non of which I’ve pinned down at the moment. Frankly, I’m not really trying to pin them down. I’m neither worried nor concerned. I’m just observing the situation. The situation just is.
A paddle fast doesn’t mean that SugarAnne doesn’t get the “hot tottie” that she needs. Would yours truly let such an important responsibility fall by the wayside? Of course not. That would, no doubt, be negligence. Would yours truly allow such an essential need to go unfulfilled? Absolutely not! That would border on emotional abuse. And Lord knows (regardless of what the vanilla world may unwittingly assume) I don’t wanna abuse the girl. Actually SugarAnne, not being a true-blood spanko, is getting exactly what she needs (for right now).
She calls it “Slap and Tickle”. It’s the kind of spanking that inspired our TTWD life; the kind that keeps it going; and apparently, the kind that gets her going too! IF you know what I mean (winkie wink). It’s less a “roasting of that rump” and more of a bare handed “icing of the cake”. It amounts to spanking foreplay.
A stern command ("Get over here") and she’s over my lap; then a reluctant peeling down of the panties – to just about mid thigh. Yes, I make her do it herself usually. A barehanded “slap” followed by a predatory grope, rounded out by those gentle pats and caresses that inspire a tingly “tickle” down below. Over and over and again and again. And after a bit, she’s all warm and fuzzy and squirmy and so ready, that it would just be some kind of criminal cruelty not to follow through and fill the burning need. And I don't wanna be no criminal!
I am not a strictly "slap and tickle" sorta fella so I don’t know how long this unpremeditated paddle fast will last. But for now the motor on “Slap and Tickle” is powerful enough, and the boost it gives us is strong enough to keep both TTWD and our life moving foward in the right direction.
The slap and tickle seems to work for you so keep doing it and I hope you continue to share your adventures.
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FD: Thanks man. We'll keep 'em coming as the inspiration strikes. Good to see you again.
ReplyDeleteHmm... "slap and tickle" sounds like a lot more fun than punishment/maintenance... Maybe TC and I should just do "slap and tickle" every day and never resort to the other... ;)
ReplyDeleteRW: I'm sure I can convince TC that you're right about "slap and tickle", that is...
ReplyDelete...until you put the jump rope down. Then it's all about punishment/maintenance. But look on the bright side...at least it'll be quiet punishment and maintenance.
Thanks for letting me help.
this post kinda got mouse thinking....hmmm
ReplyDeleteHugs,
mouse
Dear BabyMan,
ReplyDeleteI am curious when you say SugarAnne's not a true blooded spanko? Just wondering what your definition of one is - in that she asked you to spank her initially. And also curious why it all can't happen simultaneously, since so much of it is 'daily demeanor' - proving your point that a few stern words work.
Nothing wrong at all with a bit of slap-n-tickle now and then and while your typical consistency may not be as frequent right now, as long as the end result leaves her and her backside satisfied, I'm sure it's often enough :)
ReplyDeletePlus, speaking for myself, even though I might fuss a bit when I don't get my bottom reddened what I would consider 'enough' sometimes. I actually enjoy the anticipation it creates that make the fulfillment twice as nice!
Enjoying your blog Babyman, keep on sharing :)
Suzy
maybe the 'paddle fast' is part of the 'molding' sugaranne was telling about!
ReplyDeletemore "slap and tickle" and less punishments....
hmmm it sure looks like she is molding you! he he he
“roasting of that rump” and more of a bare handed “icing of the cake” love that and there's certainly nothing wrong with some slap and tickle.
ReplyDeleteThanks Babyman.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Pray tell, what IS mouse thinking? Hopefully it won't get her into any trouble.
ReplyDeleteKaylynn: I don't have a clear cut definition of what a true-blood spanko is. But SugarAnne does not crave punishment, she does not like the pain and she avoids it with with the effort of a champion. I'm the one who introduced DD into our relationship and the daily demeanor has been a benefit too good for us to turn away from.
Suzy: thanks for stopping over. Sounds like you're getting what you need too!
Alujna: ooooooooooooooooooooo....you got somebody in troubuuuuuuule.
ronnie: I probably spend too much energy thinking of different ways to describe spanking. I still have a few left in my notes. Thanks for the comment.
Great post! No need to bring out the heavy artillery when the hand weapons maintain the line so well!
ReplyDeletelove and hugs xxx
M:e: I'm cetain that SugarAnne holds the same sentiment. Thanks for the visit!
ReplyDeleteSounds good to me! Although, I don't reach for my paddle, I let her do the reaching for me. lol
ReplyDeletestw: LoL! I like that in you.
ReplyDeleteWelcome and thanks for the comment.
Hiya Babyman :)
ReplyDeleteThe slap and tickle is my favorite as far as spanking goes. It certainly makes for a great warm up - in more ways than one!
Salvia :)
Salvia: I think Sugar agrees with you wholeheartedly! Thanks for the visit.
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